FAQs

Is family mediation legally binding?

Mediation itself is not legally binding, but any agreement reached can be turned into a legally binding document by a solicitor. In some circumstances, this might be a Consent Order approved by the Court. Mediation therefore gives you the space and flexibility to reach an agreement that works for your family, and the option then to formalise it. 

How much does family mediation cost?

A MIAM/intake meeting costs a flat fee of £120 per person. Each full mediation session after that costs £130 per person per hour, with most couples needing about 4 or 5 sessions of, say, 90 minutes each (max 2 hours). Work between sessions (other than brief emails, communications or preparation) is £130 per person per hour. Mediation is generally far cheaper than solicitor-led divorce or court proceedings. See our Costs page for full details. 

What is a MIAM/Intake meeting and do I have to attend one?

This is an initial meeting with each of you separately, where we explore amongst other things whether mediation is suitable for you. A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) will usually be required by the Court if you are issuing Court proceedings. 

What if my ex-partner refuses to attend mediation?

Mediation is voluntary, so it can't go ahead if one person refuses. But, once your ex-partner has found out what's involved by attending an intake meeting/MIAM, and hopefully built a rapport with us, it may be that they change their mind because they see the very real benefits of mediation. 

How long does mediation take?

There is no set timeframe. The time taken depends on the issues that need to be resolved, but many family mediations are completed within say 4 or 5 sessions over the course of a few months. This is typically much faster than the average solicitor-led process, which can take significantly longer. 

What issues can be resolved through mediation?

Family mediation can cover one or both of the following: (i) arrangements for children; (ii) division of finances and property, including pension arrangements. You are the clients and you choose what you want to resolve. 

Is mediation right for us if we don't get on well?

Mediation is often most valuable precisely when communication has broken down, because the mediator's role is to manage that dynamic and keep discussions constructive and safe. Hopefully, also enabling you to continue to talk effectively after the mediation has ended. 

Do I still need a solicitor if I use mediation?

There is no requirement to do so. But, mediators do not give legal advice and we often recommend that you seek independent legal advice, particularly before coming to any final agreement. You would also likely want a solicitor to turn any final agreement into something legally binding. Using solicitors in this limited way keeps costs much lower than a fully solicitor-led process. 

Do you offer family mediation online or only in person?

We offer both remote and in-person mediation, and we can decide what would work better for you. In person sessions are available across North London, including Barnet, Finchley, Haringey, Camden and Islington, with Central London also available if more convenient.